Help Guys I don't know what to make of this message

[Mr2005]

"Goodnight. The messages you sent me friday has me thinking you were going to do something. Maybe you will once I'm gone?" No response

 

[Sprite_Geist]

Is this a message that you were sent on here?

 

[Mr2005]

It's from my girlfriend

 

[Isadeth]

have you talked to her since?

 

[Brackenshire]

Wtf

 

[Deleted member 19654]

Maybe you will once I'm gone? I'm confused by this part

 

[Meditation guide]

"Goodnight. The messages you sent me friday has me thinking you were going to do something. Maybe you will once I'm gone?" No response

Know what a long horrible life has taught me about things people say or text or whatever? That they can't be taken seriously and most of the time are completely meaningless. People yap and yap and none of it means anything at all and that message is one of those. If anything it means she likes fucking with you.

 

[Xocoyotziin]

Weird fucking intonation here. If I thought my bf/gf was going to do it, which has happened before, I'd panic and pull out all the stops to prevent it, sorry guys. Not write some strangely nonchalant message.

 

[Squiddy]

Maybe she's saying she wants to ctb before you do?

 

[Xocoyotziin]

Know what a long horrible life has taught me about things people say or text or whatever? That they can't be taken seriously and most of the time are completely meaningless. People yap and yap and none of it means anything at all and that message is one of those. If anything it means she likes fucking with you.

Holy shit I'm not even being sarcastic and I also don't know you but I'm loving this fucking presumably justified rage

 

[Meditation guide]

She's having a blast playing head games.

 

[Mr2005]

Ok false flag but she did give me a heart to heart and I need to prove myself to her. I need to do what I've been putting off whatever it results in. She also said her hopes of ever having children have vanished. I don't know how she knows that today but I've spent what's realistically her last few years being like this

 

[LonelyDude15]

You should try to get in contact with her to find out what that means

 

[Meditation guide]

She also said her hopes of ever having children have vanished.

I'd say that's a step in the right direction then.

 

[Xocoyotziin]

Ok false flag but she did give me a heart to heart and I need to prove myself to her. I need to do what I've been putting off whatever it results in. She also said her hopes of ever having children have vanished. I don't know how she knows that today but I've spent what's realistically her last few years being like this

Again I have no idea what I'm talking about and I really don't want to get too involved but... what? This is sounding weirder and weirder. People who love each other don't usually demand proof because they also trust each other.

 

[Mr2005]

Sorry to get you all worked up but thanks for responding pronto

I'd say that's a step in the right direction then.

For who?

Maybe she's saying she wants to ctb before you do?

That was my worry

Weird fucking intonation here. If I thought my bf/gf was going to do it, which has happened before, I'd panic and pull out all the stops to prevent it, sorry guys. Not write some strangely nonchalant message.

I didn't know what to do. People blog their every waking move so I deemed it important enough. I'm glad I didn't panic and call an ambulance

 

[Spitfire]

Know what a long horrible life has taught me about things people say or text or whatever? That they can't be taken seriously and most of the time are completely meaningless. People yap and yap and none of it means anything at all and that message is one of those. If anything it means she likes fucking with you.

This seems to be true many times, sadly.

That sure was a strange sounding message she sent you. Her talking about being gone. I wonder what that could mean, and why would she say that?

 

[Mr2005]

This seems to be true many times, sadly.

That sure was a strange sounding message she sent you. Her talking about being gone. I wonder what that could mean, and why would she say that?

It's a very long answer but I'm glad I got one.

 

[Xocoyotziin]

I didn't know what to do. People blog their every waking move so I deemed it important enough. I'm glad I didn't panic and call an ambulance

Oh no no no, maybe I misunderstood, but I was talking about her reaction to you, not yours to her.

 

[Mr2005]

Oh no no no, maybe I misunderstood, but I was talking about her reaction to you, not yours to her.

I wasn't sure.

 

[BipolarGuy]

Sorry, I MUST be misunderstanding this......she's basically telling you to "get on with it"?

 

[Mr2005]

Sorry, I MUST be misunderstanding this......she's basically telling you to "get on with it"?

She hates me for being like this

 

[BipolarGuy]

She hates me for being like this

Is she helping you to get better, or is she dragging you down?

 

[Mr2005]

Is she helping you to get better, or is she dragging you down?

It's never that simple is it?

 

[BipolarGuy]

It's never that simple is it?

I guess I see people as either helping or not helping, broadly speaking.

 

[Ghost2211]

To me it sounds like splitting up or ctb....

 

[Mr2005]

To me it sounds like splitting up or ctb....

See the cat in my picture? Lives with her. They come as a package. If we split up I would ctb and there lies the problem. I haven't known what I'm going to do for years. Women like security and most wouldn't have stuck around this long. Fears without me she'll become the cat lady. Actually she helped me tonight to stop feeling bad for me and instead feel bad for her

 

[almost_dead]

fricking ask her . nobody on here can tell you anything .

 

[Ghost2211]

See the cat in my picture? Lives with her. They come as a package. If we split up I would ctb and there lies the problem. I haven't known what I'm going to do for years. Women like security and most wouldn't have stuck around this long. Fears without me she'll become the cat lady. Actually she helped me tonight to stop feeling bad for me and instead feel bad for her

That's rough. It sucks when it's the other person's pet. I hope she has cleared things up with you by now. Do you guys generally have good communication?

 

[TheQ22]

You don't need to prove yourself to her, she sounds super manipulative.