Does having a planned ctb date make attempts easier?

[Vivisection]

since being informed i have bpd ive been slowly planning more attempts, in the past id just wait till i felt bad enough to impulsively try but ive been wondering, does anyone know if a date make sit easy to follow through on attempts? obv people who have been successful cant weight in but at the very least in the getting started bit does it help?

 

[BlueberryDeer]

Well, from my personal experience, I think that choosing a date helps in three points:
- it will Helps to overcome the fear of death. Society always taught us that death is a tragedy and will do anything to avoid it, so choosing a specific date makes it easier to overcome that situation.
- It helps to make peace with dying. Sure, everyone will die someday, but since suicide is an act who requires to get personally into the process, establish a date could give a fresh perspective on the situation and overcome the panic who generates.
- it helps with planning a method. I don't know your choose one, but from my experience experience I'll get hanging and it will help me to find a spot to do it without interruption, to buy the proper rope, to prepare my own goodbye moment and simply do it without hesitation. I'll willing to pay the seconds of pain when I struggling at the constriction, but with a planned date it will be helpful for me to do it.

Remember, the decision is yours. In this site will never ask for do it or choose it without considering all the consequences. So decide wisely and don't pressure yourself.

 

[Vivisection]

Well, from my personal experience, I think that choosing a date helps in three points:
- it will Helps to overcome the fear of death. Society always taught us that death is a tragedy and will do anything to avoid it, so choosing a specific date makes it easier to overcome that situation.
- It helps to make peace with dying. Sure, everyone will die someday, but since suicide is an act who requires to get personally into the process, establish a date could give a fresh perspective on the situation and overcome the panic who generates.
- it helps with planning a method. I don't know your choose one, but from my experience experience I'll get hanging and it will help me to find a spot to do it without interruption, to buy the proper rope, to prepare my own goodbye moment and simply do it without hesitation. I'll willing to pay the seconds of pain when I struggling at the constriction, but with a planned date it will be helpful for me to do it.

Remember, the decision is yours. In this site will never ask for do it or choose it without considering all the consequences. So decide wisely and don't pressure yourself.

About the chose ctb method, I want to do partial hanging, ive done it (wrong) and found bear success, I felt dying I swear, it was so peaceful I just did it a little wrong, I know what I dod wrong and the right way now, ill fix it
Thank you for your input, means the world

 

[eggsausagerice]

doesn't imo. i personally think dates are a psyop that can lead to a cycle of guilt. but for some people they work. it's probably easier if you have faith in your method working. i've never succeeded with partial suspension as a method but a part of me keeps wanting to practice it to see if it might work. full suspension just makes me start freaking out every time i try to do it because i don't feel ready enough.

ctb dates don't ensure you'll ctb on that day

i keep on postponing to infinity, but when i get my license i'll finally have the opportunity to drive myself to a location to ctb, and no one will be able to stop me as long as i factory reset my phone and don't contact anyone once i'm there. but the concept of deadlines always give me false...

sanctioned-suicide.net

*i didn't end up getting my license so i'm probably doing it at home or somewhere close to home, despite the stigma of ctbing around family