closest friend here disappeared

[TheHolySword]

When I first joined I wasn't really looking to make friends or talk to anyone in private, I didn't want any more social obligations. But I quickly bonded with someone and we ended up chatting on here fairly consistently for a couple weeks. And then one day they stopped and I haven't heard from them or seen them on here for a few weeks. And it's bittersweet. You hope they found a reason to stop coming, you hope their life turned around or something amazing happened. At the very least you hope they found their peace, you hope they aren't suffering anymore. I didn't plan on really making any connections here but life is strange sometimes. Just late night thoughts.

 

[Peace2peace]

It happens here and there

 

[The_Hunter]

When I first joined I wasn't really looking to make friends or talk to anyone in private, I didn't want any more social obligations. But I quickly bonded with someone and we ended up chatting on here fairly consistently for a couple weeks. And then one day they stopped and I haven't heard from them or seen them on here for a few weeks. And it's bittersweet. You hope they found a reason to stop coming, you hope their life turned around or something amazing happened. At the very least you hope they found their peace, you hope they aren't suffering anymore. I didn't plan on really making any connections here but life is strange sometimes. Just late night thoughts.

I can definitely see that.

There was this one thread, titled "[I feel] SaSu is killing me." by a long-time user named Holu. In it they talk about their experience of how confused they feel after experiencing two back-to-back deaths of users they knew very closely on the forum. I find it a greatly enlightening read. In fact, I might even recommend it. If you're interested in taking a peek, here is the link. "SaSu is killing me." (original thread post by Holu). Hope it provides some clarity. Take care. I hope that person is doing as well as they can be; your feelings are quite understandable & valid too.