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maka

maka

this is for you, mi cuervito 𓇢𓆸
Apr 23, 2019
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I am back and planning to go out by Christmas/the end of the year if I end up alone again this year. I am tired of waiting around for someone to come save me and I am not strong enough to save myself, so I am officially throwing in the towel.

The absolute only thing that I am worried about is my job and school. I know that it shouldn't matter because I'll be dead anyways but I lowkey want people around me who treated me bad to know how bad it was, so as selfish as it is I want them to know that I died so they don't start any more unnecessary rumors about me/have to live with the guilt. I also have a few online friends that I talk to occasionally, and even though we barely talk I don't want them to think I ghosted them. Also because I don't want my teachers to think that I dropped out.

Is there some type of service where I can hire people to make that call for me after my death so that they can notify those places/people of my passing? Or like, for those of you with no support system, how do you plan to "notify" any important places/people in your life?
 
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Alpacachino

Alpacachino

Merry Christmas!
Nov 26, 2025
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You can send them an actual message by courier. This is called nominated day delivery" or "special delivery".

Put your message in a package, wrap it up and schedule the delivery date. Just in case the attempt doesn't go through, you can cancel this delivery.
Confirm that with your Courier company beforehand though.
 
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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Enlightened
May 7, 2025
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You can also just mail a traditional letter. If your intended method is one that should be relatively immediate... my plan was to write a letter, put it in my mailbox at the end of the day and then make my attempt that night. When my attempt failed, I was able to retrieve the letter so it never got mailed. IF I had died on my attempt, then it would have been picked up the next day and delivered a few days after that.
 

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