Anyone wants to die because of loneliness but would want to live if helped and daily comfort ?

[babouflo201223]

Is there anyone in France who wants to die because of loneliness but would like to live if someone helped and gave daily comfort ?

 

[thenorthern]

I mean not specifically this. I just want SOMEONE. I lost my parents and have been isolating since.

 

[babouflo201223]

Nobody ?

 

[Golemishna]

Maybe, not french though

 

[DrinkyCrow]

Maybe, not french though

Same.

My best friend recently found someone and is in such a better place recently. Put me in a very weird place of; ok I can go and don't have to worry about her, but also feeling like; maybe that could fix me. The big difference is; she fully deserves this, and I don't think i do honestly.

 

[Golemishna]

Same.

My best friend recently found someone and is in such a better place recently. Put me in a very weird place of; ok I can go and don't have to worry about her, but also feeling like; maybe that could fix me. The big difference is; she fully deserves this, and I don't think i do honestly.

Why wouldnt you deserve it? I think most people do. I mean I dont know you but id bet that you do deserve it, its just your depressed brain manipulating you.

 

[babouflo201223]

Même.

Ma meilleure amie a récemment trouvé quelqu'un et se sent beaucoup mieux ces derniers temps. Elle m'a mis dans une situation très étrange : « ok, je peux y aller et je n'ai pas à m'inquiéter pour elle », mais elle m'a aussi donné l'impression que « peut-être que ça pourrait me guérir ». La grande différence, c'est qu'elle le mérite pleinement, et je ne pense pas que ce soit le cas, honnêtement.

Everybody deserves, you too of course.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I'm not in France but it would help. Unfortunately I don't deserve another person.

 

[Golemishna]

I'm not in France but it would help. Unfortunately I don't deserve another person.

Why are you all saying that

 

[babouflo201223]

Je ne suis pas en France mais ça aiderait. Malheureusement je ne mérite pas une autre personne.

Where are you ? You're wrong, believe me, when you say you don't deserve. Try to be kind with you and it could change your mind about that.

Peut-être, mais pas français

And you, where are you ?

 

[DrinkyCrow]

Why wouldnt you deserve it? I think most people do. I mean I dont know you but id bet that you do deserve it, its just your depressed brain manipulating you.

Ok lemme rephrase it another way; I see why she found someone actually. I don't see any reason why anyone would want me.

She's one of the most kind hearted, nice, helpful, generous and funny person ive ever met. I never understood how she wasn't able to find someone suitable for so long.

I have no money, no energy, no will to live, no hope for the future. So yeah, I understand why no one wants me lol.

 

[Golemishna]

Where are you ? You're wrong, believe me, when you say you don't deserve. Try to be kind with you and it could change your mind about that.

And you, where are you ?

Im from Spain, so pretty close I guess

 

[babouflo201223]

Peut-être, mais pas français

Et toi, où es-tu ?

Je suis d'Espagne, donc assez proche je suppose

Indeed.

Je suis d'Espagne, donc assez proche je suppose

And to be concrete, what kind of help would you need ? Do you have an idea about that or no ?

Je suis d'Espagne, donc assez proche je suppose

Et concrètement, de quel type d'aide auriez-vous besoin ? Avez-vous une idée à ce sujet ou non ?

 

[Golemishna]

Ok lemme rephrase it another way; I see why she found someone actually. I don't see any reason why anyone would want me.

She's one of the most kind hearted, nice, helpful, generous and funny person ive ever met. I never understood how she wasn't able to find someone suitable for so long.

I have no money, no energy, no will to live, no hope for the future. So yeah, I understand why no one wants me lol.

Have you though that maybe she thinks also the same about you? Not trying to dismiss your feelings but we tend to see others in a better light than ourselves, i know it because I do the same.
About the things you listed, if someone wants you for your money, that person sucks, and the others three things arent flaws, its just your current emotional situation. Im sure a lot of people want you.

Et toi, où es-tu ?

Indeed.

And to be concrete, what kind of help would you need ? Do you have an idea about that or no ?

Et concrètement, de quel type d'aide auriez-vous besoin ? Avez-vous une idée à ce sujet ou non ?

well now that I think about it, I wouldnt like someone to help me in a an altruistic way, I just want someone that likes to be around me, id like to make someone feel good, maybe in turn that would make me feel good too, dont know how to explain it LOL

 

[babouflo201223]

As-tu pensé qu'elle pense peut-être la même chose de toi ? Je ne cherche pas à minimiser tes sentiments, mais nous avons tendance à voir les autres sous un meilleur jour que nous-mêmes, je le sais parce que je fais la même chose.
En ce qui concerne les choses que tu as énumérées, si quelqu'un te veut pour ton argent, cette personne est nulle, et les trois autres choses ne sont pas des défauts, c'est juste ta situation émotionnelle actuelle. Je suis sûr que beaucoup de gens te veulent.

Eh bien, maintenant que j'y pense, je n'aimerais pas que quelqu'un m'aide de manière altruiste, je veux juste quelqu'un qui aime être avec moi, j'aimerais que quelqu'un se sente bien, peut-être qu'en retour, cela me ferait du bien aussi, je ne sais pas comment l'expliquer MDR

Ok, I think I understand what you mean.

 

[star.trip]

Sorry but I'm not French. I live close to France.
If I lived in an ideal world, I would answer that I do want to live, although this would be a utopia. The reality in my case is different and has taught me that there will be no one, I assume and accept it. It is a little sad because I have made a lot of mistakes.

 

[DrinkyCrow]

Have you though that maybe she thinks also the same about you? Not trying to dismiss your feelings but we tend to see others in a better light than ourselves, i know it because I do the same.
About the things you listed, if someone wants you for your money, that person sucks, and the others three things arent flaws, its just your current emotional situation. Im sure a lot of people want you.

She told me she see's me as a brother, her dad is also super cool and treats me super nice.

But like nah that's not a current emotional situation. I know it's nice for now but sooner or later everyone gets fed up with me or finds better (or some times worse) friends or whatever replacement I was in that moment.

 

[scarletrat]

imo if ure in that place where u wouldn't commit if u had friends ur life can still get better. good luck finding someone :).

 

[Reflection]

Not just someone, but a specific someone who I miss...so yeah the odds aren't quite all good.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Why are you all saying that

Idk I guess a lot of users just aren't from France.

Where are you ? You're wrong, believe me, when you say you don't deserve. Try to be kind with you and it could change your mind about that.

I'm in America, California to be specific. Thanks for the reassurance but I'm sorry to say no amount of kindness to myself will make my awfulness go away.

 

[AmIForReal]

I just want someone that likes to be around me, id like to make someone feel good, maybe in turn that would make me feel good too, dont know how to explain it

I understand deeply.

 

[SoulWhisperer]

If I had the chance to break my cycle of suffering and loneliness and live at peace, hell yeah, I'd reconsider everything on my mind step by step. But if I don't do shit then shit won't happen unfortunately. (Also sorry but I'm not from France... Just wanted to share my 2 cents)

 

[babouflo201223]

Désolé mais je ne suis pas français. J'habite près de la France.
Si je vivais dans un monde idéal, je répondrais que je veux vivre, même si ce serait une utopie. La réalité dans mon cas est différente et m'a appris qu'il n'y aura personne, je l'assume et je l'accepte. C'est un peu triste car j'ai fait beaucoup d'erreurs.

Sorry but I'm not French. I live close to France.
If I lived in an ideal world, I would answer that I do want to live, although this would be a utopia. The reality in my case is different and has taught me that there will be no one, I assume and accept it. It is a little sad because I have made a lot of mistakes.

You made a lot of mistakes ? And what ? It's not a reason to be cruel with you. Do you know people who never make mistakes ? Of course not, we are humans. I'm sure you deserve help as anyone else.

 

[star.trip]

I thank you for your response and your time. But I'm tired of being in a loop where I go from being good to being bad. When I talk about mistakes, many times I blame myself for everything bad that happens to me, and I wanted to say that a part of it is because I make decisions, and another part is because it comes from the environment. Many people say: "Keep fighting, life is like that" but when you take stock and you accumulate more defeats than victories you end up wondering why.

Moreover, in nature, those who manage to adapt are the ones who succeed in survival, and those who do not adapt, it's a different matter.

 

[Sadaiz]

Is there anyone in France who wants to die because of loneliness but would like to live if someone helped and gave daily comfort ?

Me

 

[nom nom]

I deserve to be loved too

 

[Rishi Forbes Das]

Not french but yes

 

[babouflo201223]

Me

Where do you live in France and how old are you ? I'm in this situation too, loneliness became a hell for me, I feel exhausted more and more to feel that and it's why I tried CTB but I failed and now despair is even stronger.

 

[edsin78]

Same thing in France, h 46, divorced for almost 2 years, lonely, never get out. Just waiting to find a good way or my back up but not my favorite. I take "stuff" so I can't think about things too long when home, that's the only reason I'm still here, but I'm hoping this December, I don't want to see 2025 if I can help it.

It would take a lot to turn things around but I don't think this is possible. Life would be easier if helped and not alone but at this point, I'm doubting it will happen before I get the courage to ctb.

 

[littleraccoon3]

Is there anyone in France who wants to die because of loneliness but would like to live if someone helped and gave daily comfort ?

I have a debt of 8000 thousand euros. If my debt was to be paid today, I really wouldn't do a CTB. The only reason is that I have debt. I'm tired of living at my friend's house because the truth is that I'm a burden to him. He told me this. I can't find a job. The economy in my country has become incredibly bad. It would be great to be in France right now. I am currently in the Middle East and as a woman I have always dreamed of being in France.