Anyone else’s attachment style avoidant?

[sserafim]

Anyone else's attachment style avoidant? I think that mine is dismissive avoidant, honestly I'm not even sure if I have an attachment style in the first place. I think I might have AvPD as well as SPD, I'm pretty sure I developed these conditions due to my Asperger's.

 

[mekurin]

Having BPD just makes this part of the package xD

 

[lemonbunny]

meeee

 

[Final_Choice]

Definitely me, developed due to trauma growing up as well as other conditions I have.

 

[sserafim]

Having BPD just makes this part of the package xD

I don't think I have BPD, but sorry to hear that

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I'm not sure how to find out what attachment style I have because everytime I try I get paywalled by the """free""" tests that show up at the top of the search results.

If I had to guess I probably have an anxious style but I'm not certain which one.

 

[Pluto]

 

[ForsakenDial]

Yes. The more time I spend with someone, they hate me overtime. Probably because I am annoying. I learned to fix this flaw by never spending too much time with people I value in my life. Because I love them and don't want them to leave me, I in turn must leave them alone. The only reason why I have some friends in my life is because they never experienced the displeasure of truly getting to know me. This is said without self loathing, or any other form of emotion that may manipulate someone into such a perspective of themself. It is acceptance of a fact of my own reality.