Any other guys feel this way?

[Kramer]

I found "nude yoga" on YouTube. It made me realize that I'm mostly attracted to women with makeup and form fitting, sexy clothing. I'm attracted to a fantasy. Probably induced by porn. Women just doing nude yoga in their house doesn't turn me on at all even if they're attractive. Weird

 

[Good4Nothing]

Not me. I prefer no makeup, and go for the girl-next-door types. The nerdier the better.

 

[Kramer]

Not me. I prefer no makeup, and go for the girl-next-door types. The nerdier the better.

I like that but I'm not turned on by it until after a few interactions.

 

[Ghost2211]

It for sure sounds like tv/porn gave you a bit of an idealistic image of women. The longer your with a woman the more of her natural state you'll see. Nobody wants to be "on" all the time.

I would never want to feel like I need to paint myself every day for men to want me. I understand some guys prefer that, and that's cool. It makes me sad women feel like they need to wear makeup to feel pretty. We are beautiful the way we are.

 

[foxdie]

I don't feel this way. The last woman I really fell for never wore make up or ever dressed up. But holy hell could she make me laugh and we had similar interests. You'll have to see any woman without make up eventually so it sounds like it's just a mental block in your head.

 

[raindrops]

I like that but I'm not turned on by it until after a few interactions.

well, im not being rude here okay but good luck, because FYI... women take their makeup off. we dont always put makeup on for sex either, during in a relationship there will be more times you have sex with a partner without makeup, becauuuuse you cant tell her to put makeup on and if you do request such a thing, it will not go down well. sexual attraction isnt just makeup and tight clothes, being kind, caring, smart is sexy too.

 

[Kramer]

It for sure sounds like tv/porn gave you a bit of an idealistic image of women. The longer your with a woman the more of her natural state you'll see. Nobody wants to be "on" all the time.

I would never want to feel like I need to paint myself every day for men to want me. I understand some guys prefer that, and that's cool. It makes me sad women feel like they need to wear makeup to feel pretty. We are beautiful the way we are.

Yeah media warped me

well, im not being rude here okay but good luck, because FYI... women take their makeup off. we dont always put makeup on for sex either, during in a relationship there will be more times you have sex with a partner without makeup, becauuuuse you cant tell her to put makeup on and if you do request such a thing, it will not go down well. sexual attraction isnt just makeup and tight clothes, being kind, caring, smart is sexy too.

That was eye opening. I wish makeup didn't exist. It's false advertising. I want to know when I meet a woman what she actually looks like.

 

[raindrops]

Yeah media warped me

That was eye opening. I wish makeup didn't exist. It's false advertising. I want to know when I meet a woman what she actually looks like.

its not just makeup, its photoshop, plastic surgery too.
i was going to say search up some of those celebs without makeup but still they will appear BeAuTiFuL
you should search for the ones you apparently like without makeup, tbh the surgery hasn't always done them much good.

 

[Kramer]

its not just makeup, its photoshop, plastic surgery too.
i was going to say search up some of those celebs without makeup but still they will appear BeAuTiFuL
you should search for the ones you apparently like without makeup, tbh the surgery hasn't always done them much good.

Yeah I know, but women in public aren't photoshopped and many look amazing.

 

[raindrops]

Yeah I know, but women in public aren't photoshopped and many look amazing.

true, they probably are amazing, you know, as in personality.
have you ever had a relationship? ...there will always be lots of women to gawk over, celebrity or not.
its about finding someone with a personality, similar interests, you get what i mean.
in your relationship you will always fantasise over someone, probably mostly celebrity, thats normal, she will too, you know, Johnny Depp (not that i like him, lol)
its okay to find someone else attractive. but you will find amazing in someone for multiple things, not just looks.

if you're talking about just sex, no strings, then awesome, go get em'
you clearly know what you want. will that bring you true happiness, i dont know, but good luck.

 

[ForcedLifeResistant]

I found "nude yoga" on YouTube. It made me realize that I'm mostly attracted to women with makeup and form fitting, sexy clothing. I'm attracted to a fantasy. Probably induced by porn. Women just doing nude yoga in their house doesn't turn me on at all even if they're attractive. Weird

I tend to disbelieve most men (and women) when they say that they're not attracted to the people whose appearances meet some shallower notion of physical attractiveness. I think that those shallower proclivities are some kind of baseline and we get trained, or we train ourselves, to ignore it because we associate having higher standards of beauty with maturity or whatever. Maybe I'm just making an excuse for myself, right?

I'm attracted to women of many different types but a lot of those same women would look even more appealing to me in skimpy clothing, high heels, makeup and all that. It's eye-catching. It doesn't need to be anything more than that but it doesn't need to be anything less either.

 

[karaboudjan]

Sometimes I think men who say they prefer no makeup actually prefer a minimal makeup look. When you wear no makeup, often guys will say you look ill or hungover.

But yeah, I agree that flattering clothes can make a man or woman much more attractive. Leaving something to the imagination is sexier than revealing all.

 

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