Am I gay?

[TrynaChingMyself]

I've recently learnt im not 100% straight and I'm into guys sexually.

I'm now starting to notice that straight porn doesn't really do it for me. Like I really have to force myself to be interested. But when I look at gay/bi porn I have an instant reaction.

Is this because its new to me? Or am I actually realising that I'm just gay, and not bisexual.

 

[noaccount]

Could be either, porn is pretty different than actual irl sexual experiences with other people so watching it can't always re-create what you'd feel actually being with somebody. Welcome!

 

[milkginger]

the human body reacts differently to different stimuli.
I think today we live in a world that allows a little more sexual freedom, so why don't you experiment, test little by little what you like and what you don't like? There is no shame in getting confused and looking for answers. Just be responsible with your health! Don't sufer trying to define yourself, test, explore and discover yourself.
Have fun and enjoy

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

Don't worry, it's not gay if he's cute

 

[CTBgenuine]

Yes Gworrrl, you're gay. Gggggay! Okaaaaay. Yaaaaaas

 

[Squalo]

human sexuality is very strange and full of shades of color, I am mostly straight but i also like boys if they are feminine and cute, sometimes i prefer them to girls.

 

[emptyjokes]

I've recently learnt im not 100% straight and I'm into guys sexually.

I'm now starting to notice that straight porn doesn't really do it for me. Like I really have to force myself to be interested. But when I look at gay/bi porn I have an instant reaction.

Is this because its new to me? Or am I actually realising that I'm just gay, and not bisexual.

Went through a similar experience as you did. I learned that straight people don't tend to ask themselves if they're gay or force themselves to be attracted to the opposite sex. Of course, I tend to believe that sexuality isn't really an "on/off" kind of spectrum. Could just be that you lean heavily towards same sex attraction. Either way, congratulations on your newfound identity!

 

[lofticries]

Sounds to me like your bi or at least bi curious.

 

[Bombastus]

I think if you were straight you'd be certain of it. Being able to contemplate the question sort of lends credence to the idea that there is at least some wriggle room for you like maybe bi or genderfluid or something I don't know what words describe which situation for that stuff