A guy likes me and I don’t know what to do about it

[bloodandshavedhead]

what do you do when you don't like someone who likes you romantically? I know this guy let's call him E, E is not my type, he's kinda weird ngl (look who's fucking talking) and he acts like he knows everything. The reason why I can't tell him I don't like him is because 1. He has connections to his friends who are popular and so if I tell him I might get fucking thrown out a window, or probably dead. He's around 6'1 and big bone, I'm 5'4, 86 pounds. I want to speak to him and say
"hey dude I don't like you just because your personality and you act like everything and you're such a performative dude who probably reads 10 pages of feminist literature and suddenly you understand having a uterus" but I can't. I don't like people romantically, I wish people could control their feelings for who they like, I think people should. It puts me in another awkward position because I like older women. Idk what to do anymore.

 

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[bloodandshavedhead]

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Lowkey yeah, apparently it's leading him on if I don't tell him but Is it really?

 

[LonelyPrince]

what do you do when you don't like someone who likes you romantically? I know this guy let's call him E, E is not my type, he's kinda weird ngl (look who's fucking talking) and he acts like he knows everything. The reason why I can't tell him I don't like him is because 1. He has connections to his friends who are popular and so if I tell him I might get fucking thrown out a window, or probably dead. He's around 6'1 and big bone, I'm 5'4, 86 pounds. I want to speak to him and say
"hey dude I don't like you just because your personality and you act like everything and you're such a performative dude who probably reads 10 pages of feminist literature and suddenly you understand having a uterus" but I can't. I don't like people romantically, I wish people could control their feelings for who they like, I think people should. It puts me in another awkward position because I like older women. Idk what to do anymore.

try rejecting him but without being fully honest perhaps-
like: "hey man, you are a pretty nice dude and all but i'm not looking for a relationship right now"
you will have to tell him sooner or later after all, some guys are persistent.

 

[bloodandshavedhead]

try rejecting him but without being fully honest perhaps-
like: "hey man, you are a pretty nice dude and all but i'm not looking for a relationship right now"
you will have to tell him sooner or later after all, some guys are persistent.

I did reject him two years ago, but he keeps on trying where it's borderline violating my life. He's everywhere I fear..

 

[LonelyPrince]

I did reject him two years ago, but he keeps on trying where it's borderline violating my life. He's everywhere I fear..

I don't really know your situation but try to have him blocked everywhere and avoid him as much as possible. I don't think he understands what a no means